Mistakes, errors and omissions are often the product of rash and inexperience conduct. These can be because the person is young and perhaps even naive and impatient. If taken as lessons to guide the future, a person who realises their values is better placed to confront the inevitable challenges ahead. His transformed attitude and aptitude... Continue Reading →

Overthinking is often the root cause of a relationship breakdown especially in marriage. Couples often worry about each other and about what the other is doing or become suspicious over infidelity or issues that can wane their bonding. When a couple decides to make a marriage vow, it is obviously intended to be kept “till... Continue Reading →

What we are today has been the unconscious bidding of our heart and soul. But what we will be tomorrow has to be the sense and purpose that should consciously be crafted by our heart and mind for a happy and harmonious life ahead.

Tension is self made; worry is self induced and pain is self inflicted if one is not able to manage negativities which plague one’s life at regular intervals. It is important to make oneself the product of decisions rather than circumstances by handling all negativities with cheerful dispositions.

Many people take for granted and fail to realise that every day is a Blessed Day when they are able to wake up to be with the person that they love, to smell the freshness of the morning air, see the beauty of nature, listen to the chirping of birds or the sound of the... Continue Reading →

Positivity breeds creativity. Coffee stirs brain activity. Together they generate energy for possibilities.

Patience is perhaps one of the most important thing in human nature that has helped to shape the world to what it is today. Impatience destroys while patience restores.

Perhaps this is the time of the year to really reflect and remember all the kindness that we have received during the year and prepare a meaningful tribute to all those who have touched our lives in one way or another. How would you do it?

It is good habit to remind oneself before speaking whether what one wants to say is appropriate or not. Hurtful words once spoken are impossible to retrieve. Similarly hurt feelings are also impossible to remove or erase. Many a times things are best left where they are. This can save oneself from some embarrassments and... Continue Reading →

 First thing in life is to know and establish your “sense and purpose“ in life and that’s where the “want and need” will merger to make you wholesome.

Each morning after opening our eyes and thanking God for the precious Gift of Life for another day, simply ask ourselves what service or help we could offer to others or any particular person who may need it and then get out of bed to do it. Any action creates a reaction and when it... Continue Reading →

Water is life and it flows to wherever there is space to contain it. The heart is the container which then allows this gift of life to release love to whoever who needs it. Use both wisely.

Everything in and about life is a miracle. 1. Face hope with faith. 2. Confront problems with proposals and pride. 3. Tackle issues with sinews not tissues. 4. Place self before others and others without self. 5. Find a place to “hide” not from failures but to rehatch and recharge. 6. Lament only with resolute... Continue Reading →

Napoleon Hill once aptly said: “Whatever the mind of man can conceive and believe it can achieve”. We are what we think. If a person sees every event either as a blessing or an experience, his physiology and outlook in life changes and this prepares him for better things to come. Positivity breeds potentials which... Continue Reading →

Living life is indeed a choice. There are two sides to a “*SAD*” choice in life. One side is where people worked too hard on unrealistic goals and become extremely *Stressed* which leads to *Anxiety* and then *Depression* when they become physically drained by their efforts. These become the undesired prescriptions for heart attacks and... Continue Reading →

In Life attitude matters most. When one thinks life is tough, he is already feeling the burden of carrying it. However, if he sees all things as a challenge and confronts them with resolute, the results can be stunning.

The power of thought is limitless so is the emotions of the heart. If we allow positivities, kIndness and love to take refuge there, the goodness that will ultimately overflow can and will touch the hearts of many who come into contact with it.

No man is an island. In life one has to guard his own interests first as very often his kindness is being taken for weakness. It is wise to be discerning with the friends to keep as only the sincere ones can add value to ones life. One true friend is better than a hundred... Continue Reading →

Being able to see through the sorrow behind the smile of a person who feigns happiness is a great instinct. Anger is often borne out of love for another not a retaliation for inept behaviours. Keeping silence is oft times a wise way to diffuse and unhappiness. A person who profess the qualities of Understanding... Continue Reading →

Limiting beliefs is one of the weaknesses that have prevented many to seize the opportunities of growth. When this is removed it can release the power from within to unveil its potentials to excel and to succeed.

Happiness is a product of the attitude of the mind guided by the emotions of a good heart. A person cannot attain Happiness if the heart is choked with regrets and unresolved issues controlled by a mind which manipulates the behaviour of right conduct.

The simple golden rule of Life is to: Think before you speak; look before you leap and have sex before you sleep.

Winners simply brand themselves with: “I Can, I Will & I Must”. Timing is only incidental where goal is consequential.

Beauty does not just lie in the face of the holder but rests eternally in the heart when it gets older. Age polishes the gem in the heart while furnishing wisdom to the mind.

Hope must come with Faith while Peace must come from Love. These are the Ingredients for a Purposeful Life regardless if it is sunset or sunrise.

The willpower to resist and walk away from things that come easy which aren’t good is a reflection of the inscrutability of righteous character. Patience truly belongs to those who understand the value of its acceptance. Willpower, patience and integrity are core values that can change humanity for a better world to live in.

It’s only human to make mistakes. Some we paid dearly for but others slipped by without penalties. Do our best to repay whatever that is repayable but do not allow the impossible cases to refrain us from continuing our journey to discover our true values and be authentic with them. Those mistakes are valuable teachers... Continue Reading →

The “dare to dream” is the first step towards progress and improvement. When one unites or corroborates with another, the dynamism galvanises unity to provide strength and growth. Love itself is nothing if not dispensed with or shared with others by which synergy provides energy to allow the relationship to grow and blossom.

A kind heart and a wise mind will convert all negativities into positivities especially poison, envy, anger, fear and hate. POISON：Anything beyond what we need is Poison It can be power, laziness, food, ego, ambition, vanity, fear, anger, or whatever. FEAR: Non-acceptance of uncertainty. If we accept uncertainty, it becomes Adventure. ENVY: Non-acceptance of good... Continue Reading →

In life nothing is impossible as everything is possible. People who reached the top did not just try their best but their commitment, determination and grit bring out the best in them. They do not settle for just being good and will not stop or be satisfied until they have achieved the goals that they... Continue Reading →