Many people often carry J.A.S. in their lives. When they see something which may not conform with normality, they become “Judgemental” without first seeking clarification. Then they will “Assume” without checking and verifying the facts. To top it all, they even “Speculate” without having the faintest idea what is going on or what is the... Continue Reading →

Many people are unable to find joy and happiness because they allow hurt to hold them back. They do not realise that the only persons who remain aggrieved are themselves if they cannot forgive in order to release the stress and pain in their hearts. A person may never forget but at least he could... Continue Reading →

Face life with a motive and purpose and remember that any fall or difficulty is there to harden you to take on the more difficult tasks ahead. Each time you pick yourself up after a fall, you will realise that every challenge is surmountable as all it takes is your courage and resolute to confront... Continue Reading →

But in reality, the source of power can only be extracted when the plug is connected to the socket so one cannot go without the other. That's how energy is expended.

Life is ever changing and challenging. It is also confounding and unpredictable yet one has to confront it come what may. Instead of letting life pass you by, ask yourself what do you really want out of it? What can you do about it? How can you shape it? Start taking control of your dreams... Continue Reading →

Do not judge others unless you have obtained all the full facts. When you forgive you are actually releasing the baggage in your heart and mind. When you give love to others and all living things, Peace of Mind is the Gift of Joy that is reciprocated.

When you give you receive. There is no need for expectation of any return because upon giving the reward is the joy and happiness that are immediately manifested. There is nothing greater than the kindness and love that is being given to others.

Time is the most powerful tool that humanity is given and it’s free. Time will tell. Time will heal. Time will show. Time allows all things to grow. Time has no dead lines. Time cannot be harvested or saved. Time is precious. Time is money. Man cannot manage time but can only manage himself with... Continue Reading →

Life is but a series of frustrations punctuated but a few moments of delight. Mistakes make us stronger and wiser while our attitude and aptitude help and allow us to navigate life that is often confusing, complicated and challenging but they are necessary as they provide us with the nectar for growth.

Life is what we make out of it. It is easy just to follow the daily flow of things and become complacent by it. The hardest thing to change is therefore the mindset. If we can change our mindset, we can change our lives. People with strong Will Powers are most likely able to change... Continue Reading →

Life is better understood backwards because we become wiser by the experiences. These experiences help us to mellow with age and provide the wisdom for us to live forward meaningfully and objectively.

Many people in a relationship do not understand that the other party has his own views and opinions and he is entitled to them. It is better to refrain from trying to convince, convert or make another person accept one’s expectations and beliefs and this is basically the cause of many failures in relationships.

Pleasant words are soothing to the ears and give comfort to the soul. Kind words need no great efforts to give away freely but the effects are invaluable to those in need.

Knowing a person is just like gleaming the cover of a book. You need to open up and go through the pages to fully understand what that person is made of and what he represents through his actions, thoughts and character which shape him.

Let not the rain dampen your spirit. It fact walking in the rain is really refreshing. Let not the words of others depress you as they can be keys to your progress. Let not any negativity affect you as it can well be the thing that switches your mind to positivity. Enjoy every moment and... Continue Reading →

Being raised right is to be taught from young that engaging in an argument is only about wanting to be right in an opinion. Others too are entitled to their own opinions which may differ from yours but they may not necessarily be wrong. When the argument escalates into a battle of only wanting to... Continue Reading →

A meaningful life is a choice. What we are and how we got there were the result of commitment and determination craved out of those choices. With success the desire to seek our “senses and purpose” in life becomes a passion towards being true to ourselves. Health becomes a concern while wealth is merely an... Continue Reading →

Trust is one of the most fundamental link in interpersonal relationship. It is the root to confidence in dealings between two persons. When Trust is broken words means Trust is one of the most fundamental link in interpersonal relationship. It is the root to confidence in dealings between two persons. When Trust is broken words... Continue Reading →

True friends are few and far in between. If you find them treasure them. Be alert and wary of those “so called” friends who leeched on you for their personal gains and those who carry tales to you. These “friends” especially the tales carriers who bring you unhappiness could never be regarded as friends. Stay... Continue Reading →

Hope gives meaning to Life. It starts from imagination graduating to dreams. Dreams open up expectations which culminate into experiences that may or may not meet the objective of the dreams. Nonetheless remaining positive whatever the outcome may be and keep prodding ahead will ultimately produce the result that is desired.

The determination for success is man’s greatest virtue without which the world would not be seeing the progress and advancement that we are enjoying today. All successes must be celebrated in order to provide the grit to move up to the next level.

People need to learn to think differently whenever they experience or witness an event. When they think differently and positively, a clearer and different picture emerges. What they perceive as a bad experience can then be accepted as a lesson rather than a hurt. When forgetting is impossible, forgiving frees the heart from pain by... Continue Reading →

There is nothing greater than kindness. Kindness offers Hope. It is an expression of love for humanity radiating goodness from the heart in many different ways that renders comfort, calmness and consoles the hearts of those in the hour of need. Greed and hatred can and will ruin the world but when Kindness rules it... Continue Reading →

 Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder. If we can see beauty in everything, ugliness too can have a beauty of its own. There is hidden beauty in everything if we only focus our attention on the good rather than the bad. This is the Nature of Love as “Love Conquers All”.

You are your own creation. Who could know you better than yourself. Others’ opinions of you do not count. It only counts when you can take values from opinions that can help you change for the better. Shield yourself from negativities and let positivities be your only guide and mentor. Peace of mind and happiness... Continue Reading →

As long as there is life there will be light to shine upon the path to walk on. When the spiritual light is turned on, it will also shine upon the path of others to show and lead them on.

Expectation is a wish for something to happen. Usually for positive happenings. The higher the expectations the greater the disappointments as not all expectations can easily come to fruition. Expectation from others is merely a wish and one can only place hope on it and if it materialises, it becomes a bonus. Expect more from... Continue Reading →

From dreams come imaginations. The world has evolved to become what it is today because of the big dreams of a few who dared to dream and to challenge their imaginations. We have to salute these dreamers who had relentlessly pursued their dreams that have resulted in the invention of machines and advanced technologies that... Continue Reading →

 Many people lament that life has no meaning but they forgot that life is just a platform on which they are given the opportunity to add meanings to it. How great their lives will be depends on what they set out to do to satisfy those meanings. There is nothing more satisfying than returning... Continue Reading →

Everyday is unique if you plan it to be so. Every wonderful moment is to be enjoyed and be kept in memory for tomorrow. Everyone is a treasure if you can share your moments to keep away the sorrows. Life is always beautiful if you deem and make it so. A positive mind is a... Continue Reading →